Unconditional and Absolute Surrender !!: The necessary (but not sufficient) condition for blossoming of love is unconditional and absolute surrender. This is the only war, which is won by unconditionally surrendering to the beloved. This means, "Do what the beloved wants you to do and let your beloved do what he/she wants to do." In a way, your
beloved seems greater than God, because you tend to devote your life,
which was granted by the God, to him/her. You must feel free,
without restrictions or boundaries, not even societal or communal.
In your childhood, when someone did or said something mean to you at the playground, you reacted by saying or doing mean right back.You get even, but you didn't grow. What is your most immediate reaction after the break up ?
Sports: Swimming, Snookers, Karate, Chess, TT, Bridge, Badminton, Football
Movies: Lagaan, Tare Zameen Par, 3 idiots, The Notebook, Ben Hur, Gone with the wind, The Reader, Titanic, Dirty Dancing, Casablanca, Pretty Woman, Roman Holiday, My Fair Lady, Ghost, A Room With a View, Inception, Jab Tak Hai Jaan, Ram-Leela
Novels: The Fountainhead, The Notebook, Pride and Prejudice, Outlander, Naked in Death, Rebecca, Lady Chatterley's Lover, Gone with the Wind,